This Question Helped Me Become a Better Leader, Father, and Husband


A common question we hear when we're growing up is "What do you want to be when you grow up?"


I always wanted to be a football player.


That dream ended when I stopped growing in 9th grade.


Today, my friend and mentor Brian Kurtz shared a better version of this question.


"WHO do you want to be when you grow up?"


This question made me think back on my career.


My favorite job was when I was network manager at Cellular One when there were only 40 employees.


The cellular industry was brand new and phones were installed in your car next to your cassette player.


If you ever worked for a startup, this was your typical startup.


Young, smart, motivated employees loving their job.


We loved coming to work every day.


We even had a real espresso machine to keep us caffeinated.


Lots of free food and of course Friday keg parties.


My WHAT was I was a techie in charge of growing and maintaining their data network.


WHO I became changed my career and my life forever.


The company was tripling in size every year.


When I started, there were two of us in the Information Systems (IS) department.


Six years later, the Information Technology (IT) department had 70 employees.


I was managing 25 desktop and network engineers.


I transitioned from a techie doing all the work by himself to a leader, directing a team of engineers.


It happened so fast that I didn't realize I had transformed from a techie to a real leader until I was recognized as one of the top managers in the company.


My time at Cellular One helped me develop my leadership skills in a "hair on fire" environment.


These leadership skills helped me be a better leader, a better business owner, a better father and a better husband.


So, WHO do you want to be when you grow up?

Ted

Ted Prodromou

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